這是一篇來自Facebook上的11張圖,可以拿來測試一下,看看自己有沒有負(fù)能量,再看看身邊的人有沒有負(fù)能量。我們的情緒很容易感染他人,不要把負(fù)面情緒帶給別人,也不要讓別人的負(fù)面情緒影響你。要給予別人正能量,不要在抱怨中度過;要積極地面對生活,生活才能更美好。 Negative people: Are afraid of change. Positive people: Are ready for new experiences. 負(fù)面的人害怕改變, 正面的人則歡迎新的機(jī)會到來 Negative people: Thinks (“Why should I praise people for doing what they have to?”) Positive people: Says (“Wow! You’re a real professional in your field!”) 負(fù)面的人覺得沒必要稱贊他人所做的事, 正面的人卻往往會看到并贊賞他人的好。 Start a dialogue like this: Negative people: “You know, I’m going to...!” Positive people: “How are you doing? I hope everything’s great!” 負(fù)面的人說話總在講著自己, 正面的人會想到去了解對方的心情。 Negative people: Think they’re the center of the universe. Positive people: Take care of others and are always ready to help. 負(fù)面的人往往覺得世界應(yīng)該圍著他打轉(zhuǎn), 正面的人卻會伸出手扶他人一把。 Negative people: Blame others for their own mistakes. Positive people: Take responsibility for their failures. 負(fù)面的人總將錯誤怪到他人身上, 正面的人懂得為自己的失敗負(fù)起責(zé)任。 Negative people: Never say sorry even when they know they’re guilty. Positive people: Apologize for any inconvenience caused. 負(fù)面的人就算知錯也不愿道歉, 正面的人會在任何造成他人不便的時候先說聲抱歉。 Negative people: Think only of personal gain and benefit. Positive people: Try not to hurt others’ feelings. 負(fù)面的人只會想著個人利益, 正面的人卻會試著不去傷害到他人的感受。 Negative people: Hate to be criticized. Positive people: Welcome any constructive discussion. 負(fù)面的人討厭被批評, 正面的人則歡迎有建設(shè)性的討論。 Negative people: Secretly hope to see others fail. Positive people: Want others to succeed. 負(fù)面的人想看到其他人失敗, 正面的人則希望看到其他人成功。 Negative people: Think they know everything. Positive people: Always strive to learn something new. 負(fù)面的人認(rèn)為自己什么都懂, 正面的人卻總想學(xué)習(xí)新事物。 Negative people: “I can’t do anything about it. This is my destiny.” Positive people: “I need to change something. I can’t keep living like this.” 負(fù)面的人遇到任何事都先退縮,告訴自己不行; 正面的人卻會想辦法改變,讓自己活得更好。 “一念天堂,一念地獄”,成為正面或負(fù)面的人僅在一念之間。做好自己的選擇,積極的生活吧! |
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