語言沒有優(yōu)劣之分,但是說的話卻分好壞。無論是老外還是哪里來的地球人,只要是好話,大家都喜歡聽。所以,要在職場上春風(fēng)得意,除了要學(xué)會國際通行的英語之外,還要學(xué)會說國際通行的“美言”。 或許你會覺得這么說是教你拍馬屁。請別誤會,這不是鼓勵你去無緣無故地刻意奉承別人。俗話說,“無事獻(xiàn)殷勤,非奸即盜”。如果一直給別人拍馬屁,反而會給別人留下壞印象。不過,這也不是說你就不用在辦公室里夸獎別人了——如果你成天板著個臉,盡說別人不太聽的,這不也是逼著別人討厭你嗎?
所以,我們要做的是在恰當(dāng)?shù)膱龊嫌们‘?dāng)?shù)脑捳Z來贊美別人,但像“Great”、“Excellent”、“Good job”之類的都太普通了,今天特意為你找來了12句英語句子,有些還是老外專用的俚語俗話,你學(xué)了之后就不會在想說好話的時候詞窮了。 說好話不一定要在事情出結(jié)果之后,學(xué)會如何鼓勵別人很重要。所以,我們先來學(xué)4句鼓勵的話: 1. Way to go! 對,就這么做! (that's the) way to go:a phrase encouraging someone to continue the good work. 2. You’re on target! 加油,你就要做到了! on target:likely to achieve a target 3. Keep up the good work! 干得好,保持下去! keep up:to maintain in good condition 4. Nothing can stop you now! 根本停不下來(沒人能阻止你了)!
鼓勵過后,隨著工作的推進(jìn),往往會遇到一些困難險阻。這時,如果你的同事需要更多自信,你就可以試著這么贊揚(yáng)他們: 5. You're a real trooper! 真的勇士,敢于直面人生的困難(你是一個相當(dāng)堅韌的人)! (a) real trooper:a person who is willing to participate in difficult situations 6. You're a good sport! 你真是個品格優(yōu)秀、勇敢大度的人! (a) good sport:someone who can accept a loss in a competition or can accept being the butt of a joke 7. You're very talented! 你真是太有才了! 8. How thoughtful of you! 你真是太有想法了! 如果你能幫助別人成功那就再好不過了。不過這還沒完,適當(dāng)給別人用好話慶賀一下,同事之間的關(guān)系自然更加融洽,工作也更愉快了: 9. You've got what it takes! 你真有一手! have what it takes / have got what it takes:to have the skills, power, intelligence, etc., to do something 10. I knew you had it in you! 我就知道你有這個本事! have it in you:to have a particular quality or ability 11. You've outdone yourself! 簡直超神了(超越自我了)! outdone:to be better or more successful than someone else at doing something 12. Give yourself a pat on the back! 干得漂亮,值得慶賀(為你自己慶祝一下)! pat on the back:to congratulate. if you give someone a pat on the back, you praise them for something good that they have done
怎么樣,學(xué)了上面這12句話以后,是不是覺得自己的嘴巴更“甜”了,同事們也更喜歡你了?不過拍馬屁要適度,過度的話就變成阿諛奉承了。在辦公室培養(yǎng)融洽、和諧、愉快的工作氣氛,無論對你還是對同事來說都是好事。希望今天的這些內(nèi)容能幫助你在職場上更加如沐春風(fēng),如魚得水。 |
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